Theatre Etiquette: Simple Rules for a Great Show

Walking into a theatre can feel a bit formal, but you don’t need to be a fussy snob to fit in. Follow a handful of common‑sense habits and you’ll help everyone enjoy the performance. The good news? Most of these rules are quick to remember and don’t cost a thing.

Before the Curtain Rises

First things first – get there on time. Arriving ten to fifteen minutes before the start gives you a chance to find your seat, settle in, and quiet any noisy kids. If you’re late, slip in at a natural break (like an intermission) and try not to block the aisles.

Dress code varies by venue, but tidy casual is safe for most regional theatres. Save the beachwear and loud logos for festivals. A tidy outfit shows respect for the performers and other audience members.

Phones are the biggest distraction. Switch them to silent or, better yet, turn them off entirely. If you must keep a phone on for emergencies, set it to vibrate and keep it face‑down on your lap.

When you take your seat, be mindful of personal space. Avoid spreading your bag on the seat next to you and keep coats on the hook if one is provided. Small gestures like this keep the row comfortable for everyone.

During the Performance

Now the lights dim and the show begins. Keep talking to a whisper – even a low murmur can break an actor’s concentration. If you need to speak, wait for a pause in the action or step out during intermission.

Applause etiquette can differ between shows. In most plays, you clap after a scene or a clear end of a speech. In a musical, you’ll hear the audience burst into applause after each big number. Take cues from the people around you and follow the conductor’s or director’s signals.

Eating and drinking inside the auditorium is generally a no‑no, unless the venue specifically allows it. A crunchy snack can easily become a distraction for others. If you need a snack, wait until the intermission or leave the theatre.

Kids are welcome, but they need to stay seated and quiet. Bring a small activity, like a coloring book, to keep them occupied. If they become restless, step out for a quick break – it’s better than disrupting the whole audience.

When the show ends, wait for the lights to come up before gathering your things. Rushing out before the cast bows can be seen as disrespectful. Take a moment to thank the performers with a polite clap and then exit calmly.

By following these straightforward guidelines, you’ll blend in with seasoned theatre goers and help create a pleasant atmosphere for everyone. Remember, the goal is to let the actors shine while you enjoy the magic of live performance.